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Some things I've learnt during my stay on this planet.

Never make someone a priority in your life when you are not in theirs.

nothing in life is one way. every single thing needs reciprocation.

if you worry too much about the consequences, you lose the ability to enjoy your present.

be upfront when you dont like something, even if it hurts the people you love.

don't be too harsh on yourself.

when you make your own decisions, life gives you the strength to face the consequences.

say things, express feelings when they matter the most. it might be late afterwards.

don't generalize. no two incidents are parallel. no two people are alike. never look at life with a vision tainted with the past.

first instinct is never wrong. always follow your gut feeling.
16.9.06 06:48
 


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Parag (17.9.06 17:36)
Well said Archana...seems like you have done lot of thinking about these general experiences and they seem to come from the bottom.


Kiran Shinde / Website (30.10.06 16:26)
hi Archana,

I came to this blog when I am orkutting at my home. It's nice to read those articles about life.
When I searching on orkut about books and my mind click to search some MARATHA groups and I joined 96K Maratha group. Actually it was my one of the friends community and something made me join it.

When I viewing members of it , your image looks attractive to me. When I click on it , I find genuine writer . This blog is good, I read some of these stories.Keep writing over here...

I havn't seen any extra articles from you....
expecting another one....
When can I read that next article?

Keep Writing


Kiran Shinde


(11.11.06 11:11)
"Never make someone a priority in your life when you are not in theirs. "


"don't generalize. no two incidents are parallel. no two people are alike. never look at life with a vision tainted with the past."


hmmmm .... this planet has a lot of confusing learnings to offer


Frozen Trance of Aj / Website (20.11.06 23:48)
Priority spells when proportionality spills.. or is it Proportionality spells when priority spills....

Why do maximal psychologically normal humans not see bigger picture then fitting in priority issues, there are infinite dimensions to each one of us ...

Each time you see your emotions through a chain of events looping back and forth through your minds eye in association to the personality... you have to make a descision and not always its right specially for unknowns....

I call it Perpetuals Dilemma and propose a simple solution see if it works:

Bases:- The person is important persoanlly / professionally

Assumption : I am important
(for you) I am understood
I want to be noticed
I need participatory response
I make the moves

Assumption : I understand the person
(for him/her)I am being appreciated
I dont expect hugh in any case
I am not being pioritized
Lack of feedback is lack of respect


Soln :-
Step 1 = Go back and repeat the same process with same settings

Step 2= Check response and compare to prior feedback

Step 3= If +ve out of loop or final iteration with modified conditions

Step 4= If -ve feedback out of original loop, set new conditions from his/her preference biased iterate once. Second and final test iterate from persoanl preference and check feedback. Still negative, over and out for that topic, person , discussion...

Step 5= Negotiation probability
Check for factorial evidences and proof of thought consistency and decide...

Solution complete with patches for creative thinking



The Quote is "Should you prioritize and devalue or synchronise and grow personal value"


Frozen Trance of Aj / Website (20.11.06 23:54)
Mammaa Miaa... it took me 21 minutes 11 secs to jot this down

madam'e..Must say you write from your heart, to come from the head is next step...synchronise both and Laaallaaa Laallllaaaa.....Melody..will spread


SwB / Website (8.12.06 04:15)
hey you! mujhe bhool gaya kya ... so how u been babe?

*tight hug*


pravin (8.12.06 22:07)
Nice thoughts, most of us come to these conclusions one time or the other but not always remember them.

I kinda wasn't as sure abt the last 2 lines - don't generalize. no two incidents are parallel. no two people are alike. never look at life with a vision tainted with the past. (This contradicts the whole premise of learning from past experiences or rather instances that helped you make the above observations in the first place...)

first instinct is never wrong. always follow your gut feeling. - The assumption here is your gut is never up for influence...which i kinda find hard to believe.

Nice thoughts nonethelsss


Aks / Website (15.12.06 13:26)
jus was goin thru some blogs n came across...

u got a very diff style of presentin ur thought
but then jus checked tht ur last blog was almost 3 months old

seems these days u tied up with somethin else n aint gettin time to pen down ur thoughts here....

anyways.....all d best

'aks'


PerpetualMelody (2.1.07 18:15)
@Frozen Trance of Aj: heyyy! sorry for replying this late, but i kept putting it off coz i didnt understand what you wrote then

now i've just managed to come a little close to your suggestion, but must admit, i'm still at a loss i understood your iteration funda, but i'm still not close to creative thinking :D pliss to help?


Raja Shahnawaz (16.1.07 02:08)
Hi Archana, I read ur articles, good ones , I must say.

I read this one and what made me comment here was about the "FIRST INSTINCT IS NEVER WRONG". I was always done in by this one, I have always had wrong FIRST INSTINCTS about others .........
Well these are you personal views and experiences, so I can only say that I dont have good instincts to catch someone's true character/nature in the first go.

Interesting articles though..........


Frozen Trance of Aj / Website (17.1.07 21:29)
Well i'd a test of your ramblings and it tell's me
(i analysed the same style as taught in school-
the writer intends to think "aa...nnn..bb.." in this paragraph)

--
The writer seems to be in dilemma about his current relations / involvement and previous
experiences. Her past relations seem to be shallow but muddled and thus
influencing her descision making capabilities as well holding her back from
new and intimate relationships. She very well displays her motivation to be focused,
but with underlying fear of losing/sacrificing personal esteem influenced by relational
constraints. Non realised attraction/socio enviromental aspects probably seem to be the root
of this current posting at that moment of time

--

Well I simply meant in my previous scraaaappp ..
You prioritise someone else but inturn if that not done then the balance between relations
spill's other way round if we do not prioritise/loose interest our dear (or the romancer)
one then its bound towards weakening/leaving bad impressions on soul..

Rest is a bit shit..but it talks about mirroring the thoughts of other person and reflecting the
analyses to check if he's right (well its only one in a lifetime so cant take chances)
and without hurting your own emotions arriving at the worldly descisions


PerpetualMelody (20.1.07 15:41)
which school taught you to analyze the way you do? i must say i am impressed! i shall reply to this comment of yours soon. but first... any specific reason behind not revealing your email-id/web-site? you sound dangerously familiar!


Frozen Trance of Aj / Website (20.1.07 20:33)
Well, you are right..know me .. but virtually on some social network .. never been face to face...

Well no name means no emotions attached when you read the comments...and i can talk freely ; but if you insist i would surface ...

Let me check your gut feeling.. i know your capabilty, just trust your instinct and you will find out...


anand khedkar (10.12.07 18:26)
too much analysis creates paraylsis!!


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